“Did you consider X?”
“Did you test Y?”
“Why didn’t you run with Z?”
Each of these could be questions that come from a place of sincere curiosity. Alternatively, each of these could be harsh, judgment-filled statements that are not-so-subtly wrapped up with a question mark.
The former invites connection, idea sharing, mutual understanding, and collaboration. The latter invites disconnection, divisiveness, fear, and hurt.
Curiosity or judgment: which are you seeking to bring into your interactions?
