{"id":1955,"date":"2021-03-05T21:30:33","date_gmt":"2021-03-06T05:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/?p=1955"},"modified":"2021-03-05T21:59:53","modified_gmt":"2021-03-06T05:59:53","slug":"zoom-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/blog\/zoom-out\/","title":{"rendered":"Zoom Out"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1955\" class=\"elementor elementor-1955\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-016ef41 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"016ef41\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8c7e363\" data-id=\"8c7e363\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-91ca883 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"91ca883\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we\u2019re in conflict with someone else, we tend to zoom in.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We put everything they do and don\u2019t do under a microscope so we can examine every detail through our own lens, narrative, and beliefs: what they say and don\u2019t say, their tone, their body language, their actions, and more.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This choice to zoom in typically leads to misunderstanding, judgment, disconnection, and conflict escalation.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If our goal is to better serve the relationship, the more useful approach is to zoom out instead.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We can choose to open up our aperture, let more light in, look at the macro and get curious about the other person\u2019s context, perspective, and narrative: what might be their values, beliefs, intentions, motivations, concerns, fears, boundaries, constraints, and aspirations?\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This choice to zoom out typically leads to understanding, empathy, connection, and conflict de-escalation.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9a13895 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9a13895\" 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