{"id":35,"date":"2020-09-03T23:22:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-04T07:22:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.jal.mybluehost.me\/\/?p=35"},"modified":"2021-02-16T19:00:08","modified_gmt":"2021-02-17T03:00:08","slug":"belong-or-bounce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/blog\/belong-or-bounce\/","title":{"rendered":"Belong or Bounce?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"35\" class=\"elementor elementor-35\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-75cccc88 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"75cccc88\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4eb6a319\" data-id=\"4eb6a319\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e94ce4e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3e94ce4e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Is this for me?<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Do I belong here?<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Do I want to belong here?<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">We ask ourselves these questions all the time when we interact with a product, service, group, organization, community, situation, and with one other.&nbsp;<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">We\u2019re continuously looking for signals that indicate \u201cthis is for me\u201d, that we\u2019re seen, understood, and valued. These signals help us decide how we want to show up, that is if we want to keep showing up.&nbsp;These signals help us decide if we want to take the risk to extend our trust.<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">When you\u2019re asking people to invest their attention and inviting them to participate in an interaction\u2014a meeting, an email, a hiring process, a team project, an app, a community conversation, etc.\u2014what signals are you sending?<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Do the actual signals that your interaction conveys match your purpose?<\/p><p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Is your interaction saturated with clear, consistent welcoming beacons for the specific people you have designed it for? Or might you be conveying signals that are serving as a bouncer, excluding people essential to your purpose?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We constantly look signals to help us decide if we belong or if we should bounce.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1795,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,11,5,8,3,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community","category-design","category-empathy","category-innovation","category-leadership","category-trust"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/belong-or-bounce-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1707&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1798,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35\/revisions\/1798"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1795"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.rulenumbersix.ca\/about\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}